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Forever . . . [Download] ✤ Forever . . . ➸ Judy Blume – Capitalsoftworks.co.uk Katherine and Michael meet at a New Year s Eve party They re attracted to each other, they grow to love each other And once they ve decided their love is forever, they make loveIt s the beginning of a Katherine and Michael meet at a New Year s Eve party They Forever . Kindle - re attracted to each other, they grow to love each other And once they ve decided their love is forever, they make loveIt s the beginning of an intense and exclusive relationship, with a future all planned Until Katherine s parents insist that she and Michael put their love to the test with a summer apart Forever is written for an older age group than Judy Blume s other novels for children It caused a storm of controversy when it was first published because of its explicit sexual content.

    Forever . . . PDF Ñ Forever . Kindle - of an intense and exclusive relationship, with a future all planned Until Katherine s parents insist that she and Michael put their love to the test with a summer apart Forever is written for an older age group than Judy Blume s other novels for children It caused a storm of controversy when it was first published because of its explicit sexual content."/>
  • Paperback
  • 178 pages
  • Forever . . .
  • Judy Blume
  • English
  • 05 February 2019
  • 033039780X

About the Author: Judy Blume

Judy Blume spent her childhood in Elizabeth, New Jersey, making up stories Forever . Kindle - inside her head She has spent her adult years in many places doing the same thing, only now she writes her stories down on paper Adults as well as children will recognize such Blume titles as Are You There God It s Me, Margaret Blubber Just as Long as We re Together and the five book series about the irrepressible Fudge She has also written three novels for adults, Summer Sisters Smart Women and Wifey, all of them New York Times bestsellers More than million copies of her books have been sold, and her work has been translated into thirty one languages She receives thousands of letters a year from readers of all ages who share their feelings and concerns with herJudy received a BS in education from New York University in , which named her a Distinguished Alumna in , the same year the American Library Association honored her with the Margaret A Edwards Award for Lifetime Achievement Other recognitions include the Library of Congress Living Legends Award and the National Book Foundation s Medal for Distinguished Contribution to American LettersShe is the founder and trustee of The Kids Fund, a charitable and educational foundation She serves on the boards of the Author s Guild the Society of Children s Book Writers and Illustrators the Key West Literary Seminar and the National Coalition Against CensorshipJudy is a longtime advocate of intellectual freedom Finding herself at the center of an organized book banning campaign in the s she began to reach out to other writers, as well as teachers and librarians, who were under fire Since then, she has worked tirelessly with the National Coalition Against Censorship to protect the freedom to read She is the editor of Places I Never Meant To Be, Original Stories by Censored WritersJudy has completed a series of four chapter books The Pain the Great One illustrated by New Yorker cartoonist James Stevenson She has co written and produced a film adaptation of her book Tiger Eyes, and is currently writing a new novelJudy and her husband George Cooper live on islands up and down the east coast They have three grown children and one grandchild.



10 thoughts on “Forever . . .

  1. Nataliya Nataliya says:

    A word of warning This review will be conducted from a soapboxwhich, if you think about it, is a completely baffling expressionAs one would expect from a young feminist gynecologist, of course.Let s cut to the chase This book is about a realistically intense relationship between Kath and Michael, two teenagers in the 1970s They meet, fall in love with a speed only teens are capable of, he wants to sleep with her, she is reluctant, eventually they do it, they are both into it, she res A word of warning This review will be conducted from a soapboxwhich, if you think about it, is a completely baffling expressionAs one would expect from a young feminist gynecologist, of course.Let s cut to the chase This book is about a realistically intense relationship between Kath and Michael, two teenagers in the 1970s They meet, fall in love with a speed only teens are capable of, he wants to sleep with her, she is reluctant, eventually they do it, they are both into it, she responsibly gets birth control And nothing tragic happens to them even though they have sex And they are not destined for each other or soulmates or any of those crap excuses that books present now every time teens decide to have sex And even , their relationship does not survive a brief separation And it s treated as something perfectly normal And this is why I love it But let s have the author, Judy Blume of Are You There, God It s Me, Margaret fame speak for herself This book was first published in 1975 My daughter Randy asked for a story about two nice kids who have sex without either of them having to die She had read several novels about teenagers in love If they had sex the girl was always punished an unplanned pregnancy, a hasty trip to a relative in another state, a grisly abortion illegal in the U.S until the 1970 s , sometimes even death Lies Secrets At least one life ruined Girls in these books had no sexual feelings and boys had no feelings other than sexual Neither took responsibility for their actions I wanted to present another kind of story one in which two seniors in high school fall in love, decide together to have sex, and act responsibly. And guess what there are many conversations about sex with the blissful conviction of that time that sexual repression and double standards and the battles over birth control and abortion are finally over and common sense prevails Now fast forward to the 21st century to see what unnecessary and charged emotions are still flung about when these simple things are concerned it s like we took quite a few gigantic steps backwards, and that makes me really sad Because it s not the world I d like to leave behind for my future hypothetical daughter It s up to you to decide what s right and what s wrong I m not going to tell you to go ahead but I m not going to forbid it either It s too late for any of that I expect you to handle it with a sense of responsibility though either way. The parents and grandparents discuss sex with the teens and make it clear that they d rather have them do it under their roof than somewhere else in the unsafe fashion Parents advise kids about sex but do not cross the boundaries in explicitly forbidding anything Birth control is accessible and is viewed as a resposible choice, and Planned Parenthood helps Katherine make that choiceyou know, the same clinics that cause politicians rage fueled speeches about them killin babies and yet, from what I have seen in real world, supplying endless women with excellent prenatal care, helping bring healthy happy babies into this word How bout thatA teenage girl decides to give birth not because abortion is viewed as a horrible thing to do but because that is her choiceyes, the real pro choice stand, unlike what the conservative media paint it these days, trying to equate choice and murder in the eyes of the publicAnd no one is ashamed of having sex which would undoubtedly lead to the dreaded slut shaming because sex is viewed as part of a normal life, like I firmly believe it should be Just be careful that s my only advice Of what Pregnancy Grandma And venereal disease Really Does it embarrass you to talk about it No, but It shouldn t. We as a society keep putting sex on an unnecessary pedestal We keep shaming girls for having sex We have political leaders who are outraged at having society cover the cost of birth control as to them it means condoning women having sex and God forbid enjoying it There are so many people warring against birth control and abortion because there should be consequences to daring to have sex And, of course, in literature aimed at young people sex is only permitted if it s true love, nothing less.Well, guess what I happen to believe that sex needs to be two things 1 consensual, and 2 enjoyable for everyone involved As long as these criteria are fulfilled, I don t have a problem with it, and I hope society would eventually come to peace with not only it but the ability and the right of people involved to make informed and responsible choices about it And that someday the materials that are deemed unacceptable to young people would be the one with graphic violence and not the ones with peaceful sex And that teenage experimenting, if done responsibly, is okay because why wouldn t it be That s not a bad word hate and war are bad words but fuck isn t. And that it s perfectly okay to not find your soulmate and the perfect one in the Twilight like fashion, and it s nothing to frown upon And it s okay to have sex when you are in love, and it s okay to not have that love last forever. And therefore I gladly give this Judy Blume book 4 stars and I will make sure my future hypothetical daughter reads it at some point, close to adolescence, because I hope she absorbs the healthy attitudes towards life, and that includes realistic teenage relationships I wanted to tell him that I will never be sorry for loving him That in a way I still do that maybe I always will I ll never regret one single thing we did together because what we had was very special Maybe if we were ten years older it would have worked out differently Maybe I think it s just that I m not ready for forever.

  2. Aleeeeeza Aleeeeeza says:

    Edit on 12 11 2011 To anyone who s got a problem with this review 1 Yes, I know that this book was a big deal when it was released That doesn t mean that when I read it in this day and age that I m going to judge it by it s historical significance I definitely appreciate it but it doesn t change the fact that I read it when I did and didn t like it and I don t want to have to constantly justify myself for that Let s ignore the fact that that s precisely what I m doing with this edit Right Edit on 12 11 2011 To anyone who s got a problem with this review 1 Yes, I know that this book was a big deal when it was released That doesn t mean that when I read it in this day and age that I m going to judge it by it s historical significance I definitely appreciate it but it doesn t change the fact that I read it when I did and didn t like it and I don t want to have to constantly justify myself for that Let s ignore the fact that that s precisely what I m doing with this edit Right 2 I know that this book s supposed to be an accurate portrayal of love at the age of seventeen and for that I should cut it some slack, but I just recently turned eighteen and I ve got a good idea of what most teenagers think love to be, and what I think it s supposed to be, and with all that in mind I can t, for the life of me, abide the portrayal of love in this book I did not enjoy reading it at all and it annoyed the bajeezus out of me, and nothing will change that.3 Guys might go around naming their underparts but I m always going to think that s disgusting.4 I HATE ELLIPSES AND ANY BOOK THAT HAS FIFTEEN ELLIPSES PER PAGE WILL AUTOMATICALLY CARVE IT S PLACE IN MY HATED THIS BOOK LIST takes deep breath Okay, yeah, that s it.Okay, yeah, so maybe I should explain the 1 star if you ve been following my reviews, you ll know that I rarely give books a 1 star rating I m not that hard to please as a reader, and I hate giving one of Judy Blume s books 1 star I used to love her MG books as kid, from what I can recall anyway But the thing is, I don t think there was a SINGLE redeeming factor in this book for me Let me list a brief list of the reasons 1 THE WRITINGGG It was so bland and unimaginative, and it was really hard to picture the scenes sometimes And the dialogue could be VERY corny at times But maybe what bothered me most was the CONSTANT use of ellipses I mean, you know ellipses have this really annoying effect they make the reader keep taking pauses and in this book there was one in practically EVERY FRIGGIN SENTENCE OMG Argggggg.2 The characters I didn t give a shizz about a single one of them, NOT ONE Kath was boooooooring and Michael was the horniest male love interest of all time I mean, yeah, teens are all lusty and hormonal and blah blah blah Hi 17 year old speaking here , but this man takes it to a whole new level Which brings me to 3 I wasn t particularly impressed with love s portrayal in this book I mean, to me, there was zilch chemistry between the characters and even so, it felt to me like Kath wasinto screwing Michael because he wanted it so bad rather than her own desire to do it The sex in this book is also REALLY explicit I m no prude, but come on, all that describing takes away all the romance in the scene Oh and, Michael calls his you know what RALPH Dude Seriously I get why this book is important for the time it was written in that didn t stop me from blitzing through it to finally get over with it Thankfully, it s super short and I won it in a contest, so I m not that miffed I m not saying no one should read this book cause it s aaaaawfulll a lot of people seem to really like it but it just wasn t for me

  3. Aj the Ravenous Reader Aj the Ravenous Reader says:

    To my dear friend, Christine s credit, she didn t recommend this personally I just shamelessly meddled with her shelves and found this novel You may as well proceed with her wonderful one line review if you want to avoid the rant y one coming your way But before the rant, let me just greet my sweet friend, A HAPPY BIRTHDAY.I hope you re having the best time and even though I didn t like this novel, again, it s the thought that I read a book for you that counts, right Lol Some books we lov To my dear friend, Christine s credit, she didn t recommend this personally I just shamelessly meddled with her shelves and found this novel You may as well proceed with her wonderful one line review if you want to avoid the rant y one coming your way But before the rant, let me just greet my sweet friend, A HAPPY BIRTHDAY.I hope you re having the best time and even though I didn t like this novel, again, it s the thought that I read a book for you that counts, right Lol Some books we love, some we just don t It s a sad fact of life but still, cheers, Christine Now onto the review Allow me to spare you the suspense The story goes basically this way Adults go saying to the teenage character Here are some birth control tips Now go pop the cherry, roll in the hay, have a go at it You may get stoned a little too as long as there s adult supervision and remember, be responsible for your own actions possibly ending the statement with a wink, a smile and two thumbs up My pitiful eyes, they suffered from the innumerable number of times getting laid was mentioned in the entire story Now you may say, Pft It s Aj She s just too uptight and stuffy Though you may be a teeny, tiny bit right to say that and I m totally rolling my eyes at ya , it s not just the plot and the content of the story It s everything else The writing style is kind of dull and in my opinion, too lazy I wasn t a fan of the plain dialogue style or the diary of a 10 year old entry like narrations See below example My parents sleep early, usually at 10 00 to 11 00 pm My father works out at a gym four times a week and plays tennis every morning from 7 30 8 30 am It s not like I m a better writer but hey, I m not an author And the characters, oh don t even get me started with the characters I couldn t even mildly put it and say I couldn t relate with them Because in my strong personal opinion, they re just plain flat, unfeeling paper characters and I m so sorry that I couldn t even euphemize my descriptions to avoid cruelty but you must know, reviews like this one is really hard for me too and as much as I wanted to give this two stars, I just can t because two stars means it s okay but this is definitely not okay especially that awful Michael guy naming his thingy, Ralph And I liked Wreck it Ralph a lot Way to ruin his image for me Ugh Turns out this is a classic YA novel Beats me I should be able to appreciate and enjoy a book regardless of the time it s written That s what a good book s supposed to be at least for me

  4. karen karen says:

    This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers To view it, click here they have sex it does not last forever at the end, she is a bitch.come to my blog they have sex it does not last forever at the end, she is a bitch.come to my blog

  5. Alex Alex says:

    The thing about Forever is that I didn t read it Boys didn t read any of this, and do you know what happened next What happened is we were terrible at sex. My sex ed was, I would trace ladies from comic books and then I would draw nipples and bushes on them I sold them to my classmates Here s the exact picture I used to trace Somebody drew this, like Here s this bad guy s costume, and everyone else in a whole ass company was like yep, looks legit, ship it to ten year olds No, I m so sorry The thing about Forever is that I didn t read it Boys didn t read any of this, and do you know what happened next What happened is we were terrible at sex. My sex ed was, I would trace ladies from comic books and then I would draw nipples and bushes on them I sold them to my classmates Here s the exact picture I used to trace Somebody drew this, like Here s this bad guy s costume, and everyone else in a whole ass company was like yep, looks legit, ship it to ten year olds No, I m so sorry, I don t have any of my tracings to scan here.Judy Blume is the Prometheus of puberty She s all, These poor mortals must have fire, though it cost me everything except instead of fire it s handjobs and instead of an eagle ripping her guts out it s some PTA asshole trying to kick her out of the library every day for the rest of her life Did you know that s still happening She s one of the most challenged authors of the 21st century These mothers and their undying need to think their daughters aren t fucking as much as they did they re all fuckingAnd so here we are, we teenage boys alone under the covers with our comic books, you teenage girls alone with Judy Blume, who s saying things like Some of your boyfriends are gay Can you believe she was talking about that in 1975 My wife s first, like, five boyfriends were gay I had a theory that gay boyfriends are a win for everyone you provide cover, they provide a nice guy who doesn t push you sexually My wife was like fuck your theory, I was horny.Not all the boyfriends are gay and Katherine is going to have sex in this book She s going to fuck Michael and his penis, Ralph, and they re all going to be very serious. But will it be.Forever My wife s sixth boyfriend was me, so who knows Percentage of women who Made a playlist for their first times 9% and this is the most adorable thing I ve ever heard, I hope it was all just Closer by NIN Remember the exact date 50% Wish they d waited longer 22% Used a condom 76% Said it hurt 51% Were in love with their partner 49% Were not really in love with their partner but insisted that they were to a stranger giving a survey 47%SourceAmanda Palmer has this song called Judy Blume that s so good, holy shit thank you forever, El and Alicia, for cluing me in to this Palmer goes, You told me things that nobody around me would tellThat was the summer that everyone touched me at onceOne day they ignored me, the next, they were all down my pantsBut you were in bed with me, safe, before anyone elseYou opened beside me and held me when I needed helpYou and me lying together at night, my heroYou ve been inside me forever, Judy BlumePalmer s my age now and she s still having this private conversation with Judy Blume, the Prometheus of puberty, and what a gift that is What an extraordinarily important thing Blume s done I personally am not still in conversation with the White Queen up there That wasn t a lifelong relationship I m still just muddling around alone here, knocking into things.Percentage of dudes who Name their dicks 73% Made an absolute bollocks of their first time either by cumming before they even get near their partner that happens in this book or by not getting it up also happens or by not using protection and knocking her up and now she has to give the kid up for adoption also happens, but not before some fat shaming that I could have done without 1%, it was just me, all the other guys were awesome at sex right out the gate It was all the comic book lady tracing that ruined me If only I d been doing normal, healthy teenager stuff, likenaming my penis Do dudes actually do that Now I ve finally read this book, but I feel like it s too late for names Did your first boyfriend name his dick Michael names his Ralph That s not even a good name for a person What the fuck, Michael

  6. JJ JJ says:

    I read this book because I m attempting to read or reread some classic YA books Now, I m a so so fan of Judy Blume, I know she has a lot of die hards out there I recently read Everything I Need to Know About Being a Girl I learned from Judy Blume but I guess I wasof a Beverly Cleary kid.This book is about first loves and first sexual experiences The story itself was good, but I think Judy Blume left out a lot of details The boyfriend, Michael, is basically a horn dog who would do any I read this book because I m attempting to read or reread some classic YA books Now, I m a so so fan of Judy Blume, I know she has a lot of die hards out there I recently read Everything I Need to Know About Being a Girl I learned from Judy Blume but I guess I wasof a Beverly Cleary kid.This book is about first loves and first sexual experiences The story itself was good, but I think Judy Blume left out a lot of details The boyfriend, Michael, is basically a horn dog who would do anything to try and talk Kath into putting out Kath is a girl who seems to devote her life to her boyfriend and put him above everything else Both qualities I really don t like in real people, let alone fictional characters All in all, I just think the story seemed rushed There needed to be longer scenes anddetails Take for instance Sybil, the fat friend who got pregnant Now, that s an interesting story in itself, and could have been a longer subplot But I think poor Sybil only got mentioned in a few paragraphs.The lesson for any young girl here If you date a guy who calls his manhood Ralph, run in the opposite direction shudders

  7. Katrina Passick Lumsden Katrina Passick Lumsden says:

    What do you do when the love of your life.isn t Forever answers that question with a simple and unflinching response you move on Kath and Michael meet at a party and quickly fall into a very physical romance After roughly a few months, Kath finally gets up the courage to have sex with Michael, believing she is in love and that she and Michael will last forever Michael too feels he and Kath are meant to be, so they flounder along in their romance, discovering each others bodies and hol What do you do when the love of your life.isn t Forever answers that question with a simple and unflinching response you move on Kath and Michael meet at a party and quickly fall into a very physical romance After roughly a few months, Kath finally gets up the courage to have sex with Michael, believing she is in love and that she and Michael will last forever Michael too feels he and Kath are meant to be, so they flounder along in their romance, discovering each others bodies and holding onto their assertions that they will prove everyone wrong and stand the test of time I ve seen a lot of reviewers complain about many things in this book, with most of those complaints revolving around the behavior of Kath and Michael I m going to address the ones I find most amusing, in no particular order 1 They talk about how in love they are, but they don t even know each other very well Is this not how the majority of teens think and behave How many times have you heard a teenage girl utter words of total devotion regarding a boy she s never even spoken to A teenager is essentially a child trapped in an almost adult body Their brains haven t caught up with their bodies, and their bodies are essentially out of control The fact that these two haven t known each other very long and barely know each other at all even though they think they do was purposeful Blume was trying to get across the very simple fact that young love isn t often very deep In fact, I find it rather silly when I read about a girl who is 16 or 17 and in the midst of some great love affair for the ages It s silly 2 Michael is such a horndog and pressures Kath into having sex And I really don t understand this complaint about the book since Michael is a 17 year old boy It s called reality, ladies Grown men are horndogs 17 year old boys, however, arelike hornmonsters Seriously, fill a bag up with nothing but hormones, give it teeth, douse it in gasoline and set it on fire That is a teenage boy As far as him pressuring Kath into having sex, that is also fairly realistic If I started making out with a guy, let him up my shirt and down my pants, even going so far as to play with Ralph we ll get to that in a moment , then pulled away not for the first time to utter again how I wasn t ready.I would not only expect some whining, I d expect a guy to be a little angry I m not saying this is acceptable behavior, and if you asked most guys they d tell you that they rethan willing to wait as long as they have to This does not, however, mean they won t whine when they get so close only to be rebuffed By the time they ve gotten down a girl s pants, they re so revved up that they can only see one thing Imagine you re in the desert and you re parched, thisclose to dying of thirst You see an oasis ahead of you Your prayers have been answered You run, stumble, crawl to that cold, life giving fluid as quickly as you can only for someone to yank it away and say, Nope, sorry, not ready yet For guys, this is pretty close to the equivalent Especially teen guys I m not trying to unfairly pigeonhole anyone here, and I know there sto teen guys than just sex I m merely saying it s usually a very large part of their everyday thoughts Michael didn t force Kath to have sex with him, she did relent , but she had wanted to relent since the beginning When they finally had sex, it was merely because Kath didn t chicken out again.3 Kath made her whole life about Michael It was stupid Yes, it was stupid And again, it was purposeful I made my entire life about a boy when I was a teenager I m willing to bet you did, as well If you didn t, you re the exception, not the norm For girls in particular, sex often fosters a fake sentiment, attaching us to our first like he s some sort of Greek god on whom our very existence depends I actually witnessed this in Kath She was enad with Michael before they had sex, but afterwards she was almost psychotically obsessed with him.4 Kath said she loved Michael, but after a few weeks away from him, she just willingly gave him up Again, you re missing a very important point The point That, at 17, you may not be ready for forever That what a teenage girl might think is an everlasting love might look different once a few other factors come into play In the beginning, Kath and Michael were insulated from the outside world They hadn t had to go out into it yet When Kath did, she met someone else and realized that Michael wasn t the only person in the world she could have a relationship with Once that sunk in, she started to wonder if she really did love him at all Then she started to think that maybe, just maybe, it was OK to have someone for a little while, then move on with your life This is a lesson most teenagers do eventually learn It s not easy, but it s often necessary 5 Michael named his penis Ralph That is so disgusting Double standard much I ve seen women give their breasts and or vaginas names and that s perfectly OK, but a guy giving his penis a name is somehow disgusting OK, so let s say you think girls who name their body parts are disgusting, as well To you I say lighten up Life is too short to find fault with something so completely innocuous So he named his penis, what guy hasn t, at least jokingly, called his penis by a name Sometimes a girlfriend names it Gasp Seriously, people, if this is one of the reasons you dislike this book, I will gladly hand you two quarters one so you can go buy yourself a clue and the other so you can hire someone to pull that rod out of your ass Phallus naming is not new, it s not rare, and it can oftentimes be hilarious But the thing I really don t understand is how this part of the book has come to be used as proof of how bad the book is It s realistic I guess if you re not a huge fan of reality, however, it could be a bit problematic Just try and forgive Ms Blume s audacity.6 The sex scenes were too descriptive, I don t want my daughters reading this trash This is a pretty common sentiment, unfortunately I say it s unfortunate because I believe young girls should be as informed as possible regarding sex long before they begin to seriously consider participating in it This book is not pornographic, it s descriptive It doesn t glorify the act of sex, it presents it in a rather realistic light Almost painfully realistic at times Kath expresses disappointment about her first time She had been expecting it to be perfect No one s first time is ever perfect Anyone who tells you their first time was perfect is probably lying to you It s awkward, embarrassing, and uncomfortable Further, women who refer to sex scenes as trash or any other common noun expressing distaste are usually uncomfortable with the topic in general, not just as it relates to teenagers As a society, we ve spent far too many years ashamed of our bodies and terrified of sex There is absolutely nothing wrong with the act itself, it s merely been demonized and perverted beyond the point of recognition by insecure people So if you don t want your children reading something like this, that s fine Just remember how ashamed you felt the first time you ever touched a penis or yourself and ask yourself if those feelings of shame were at all right or justified Why should anyone feel ashamed of sex Only human beings could take something as wonderful and necessary as sexual intercourse and turn it into something shameful and filthy This is not a fantasy There aren t any sparkly metrosexual vampires guarding the heroine s virtue while simultaneously watching her sleep This is a book about two 17 year olds who meet, like each other, hook up, fall prey to their misguided, immature conceptions of what love is, then have to deal with what their relationship is once faced with reality It s shallow, yes, because teens are usually pretty shallow It s sexual, again, because teens are pretty sexual It s also over rather quicklylike the majority of teenage relationships

  8. Julie Julie says:

    Wow, this retro re read project I ve taken on with my sister in snark, Vanessa, has become borderline INSUFFERABLE.We had so much enthusiasm, Vanessa and I, as we compiled an informal list of our most decadent, dirty reads, the ones we hid back in the day from the probing eyes of teachers and had covers that were worn from so many adolescent girls hands.Once, our inexperienced selves considered these books titilating as experienced adults I havelikely considered how did this nonse Wow, this retro re read project I ve taken on with my sister in snark, Vanessa, has become borderline INSUFFERABLE.We had so much enthusiasm, Vanessa and I, as we compiled an informal list of our most decadent, dirty reads, the ones we hid back in the day from the probing eyes of teachers and had covers that were worn from so many adolescent girls hands.Once, our inexperienced selves considered these books titilating as experienced adults I havelikely considered how did this nonsense ever get published Our last two, Flowers in the Attic and Fear of Flying were so over the top awful, you could only assume that a publishing house was pushing the envelope, hoping the sex would sell it did, in both cases , but this one, Forever, provokes the most head scratching confusion of the bunch I know, from much personal experience, that Judy Blume knows how to write, knows how to develop characters, and knows how to write dialogue.So what happened here Yes, there are sex scenes and sexual information in this story that appeared in the dark ages of 1975 that caused many a teen girl to reach out her hand in quiet desperation, and there s a bit of an education to be gained here for the average adolescent.But, good God, this was boring Bor ing And, the book s not only boring it contained zero character development, zero plot points of interest and dialogue that sounded like it was being read by the characters from a teleprompter.This entire book reads like a pamphlet from Parent Parenthood rather than a story Three stars for teaching young women about the importance of birth control

  9. Whitney Atkinson Whitney Atkinson says:

    2.5 starsThis book is to the girls of the 70s what American Girl s The Keeping and Caring of You is to girls from the 90s It s a very short, dry story of these two teens exploring sex, and it readslike a zeitgeist piece than an evergreen how to guide I was mainly interested in how teenagers talked to their partners and the social environment of sex around that time, and evaluating how different the world is today compared to this book was interesting I don t regret reading this book, 2.5 starsThis book is to the girls of the 70s what American Girl s The Keeping and Caring of You is to girls from the 90s It s a very short, dry story of these two teens exploring sex, and it readslike a zeitgeist piece than an evergreen how to guide I was mainly interested in how teenagers talked to their partners and the social environment of sex around that time, and evaluating how different the world is today compared to this book was interesting I don t regret reading this book, but I wouldn t necessarily recommend it because although it was a fascinating look back on teens a few decades ago, it was also full of stereotypes and distasteful dialogue and fatphobia and the male love interest pressuring the main character to doAND THE ELLIPSES WHYDID EVERY OTHER SENTENCEHAVE ELLIPSESINCLUDING THE TITLE

  10. Sheri Sheri says:

    Judy Blume has always excelled at writing about issues that are relevant to teens Her plainspoken characters dealing with everyday contemporary topics offer relatable reads that get right to the heart of the matter Here she takes the reader into that first real relationship, that first love, and that first sexual experience.While some say there is no plot or character development in this novel, I find that to be Blume s point she perfectly illustrates the shallowness of most teen relationship Judy Blume has always excelled at writing about issues that are relevant to teens Her plainspoken characters dealing with everyday contemporary topics offer relatable reads that get right to the heart of the matter Here she takes the reader into that first real relationship, that first love, and that first sexual experience.While some say there is no plot or character development in this novel, I find that to be Blume s point she perfectly illustrates the shallowness of most teen relationships There is no story to follow because there is no substance in the relationship Although the carefree lovers would disagree, there isn t depth or breadth to the relationship you can t get to know a person when you only explore your mutual physical interest in each other Michael and Katherine epitomize teenage lust in all senses physical, psychological, and emotional I enjoyed re reading this classic from my teen years I suspect I am rating this higher than my younger self might have because I can see and appreciate the lessons Blume is trying to impart I do remember enjoying it as a teen, although most likely forimmature reasons Does it stand the test of time Would today s teens find relevance in the story Yes, I think so There are a few dated references, but I think teens especially females would enjoy reading this tale of first love Hopefully they re savvy enough to pick up Blume s inferred lessons

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10 thoughts on “Forever . . .

  1. Nataliya Nataliya says:

    A word of warning This review will be conducted from a soapboxwhich, if you think about it, is a completely baffling expressionAs one would expect from a young feminist gynecologist, of course.Let s cut to the chase This book is about a realistically intense relationship between Kath and Michael, two teenagers in the 1970s They meet, fall in love with a speed only teens are capable of, he wants to sleep with her, she is reluctant, eventually they do it, they are both into it, she res A word of warning This review will be conducted from a soapboxwhich, if you think about it, is a completely baffling expressionAs one would expect from a young feminist gynecologist, of course.Let s cut to the chase This book is about a realistically intense relationship between Kath and Michael, two teenagers in the 1970s They meet, fall in love with a speed only teens are capable of, he wants to sleep with her, she is reluctant, eventually they do it, they are both into it, she responsibly gets birth control And nothing tragic happens to them even though they have sex And they are not destined for each other or soulmates or any of those crap excuses that books present now every time teens decide to have sex And even , their relationship does not survive a brief separation And it s treated as something perfectly normal And this is why I love it But let s have the author, Judy Blume of Are You There, God It s Me, Margaret fame speak for herself This book was first published in 1975 My daughter Randy asked for a story about two nice kids who have sex without either of them having to die She had read several novels about teenagers in love If they had sex the girl was always punished an unplanned pregnancy, a hasty trip to a relative in another state, a grisly abortion illegal in the U.S until the 1970 s , sometimes even death Lies Secrets At least one life ruined Girls in these books had no sexual feelings and boys had no feelings other than sexual Neither took responsibility for their actions I wanted to present another kind of story one in which two seniors in high school fall in love, decide together to have sex, and act responsibly. And guess what there are many conversations about sex with the blissful conviction of that time that sexual repression and double standards and the battles over birth control and abortion are finally over and common sense prevails Now fast forward to the 21st century to see what unnecessary and charged emotions are still flung about when these simple things are concerned it s like we took quite a few gigantic steps backwards, and that makes me really sad Because it s not the world I d like to leave behind for my future hypothetical daughter It s up to you to decide what s right and what s wrong I m not going to tell you to go ahead but I m not going to forbid it either It s too late for any of that I expect you to handle it with a sense of responsibility though either way. The parents and grandparents discuss sex with the teens and make it clear that they d rather have them do it under their roof than somewhere else in the unsafe fashion Parents advise kids about sex but do not cross the boundaries in explicitly forbidding anything Birth control is accessible and is viewed as a resposible choice, and Planned Parenthood helps Katherine make that choiceyou know, the same clinics that cause politicians rage fueled speeches about them killin babies and yet, from what I have seen in real world, supplying endless women with excellent prenatal care, helping bring healthy happy babies into this word How bout thatA teenage girl decides to give birth not because abortion is viewed as a horrible thing to do but because that is her choiceyes, the real pro choice stand, unlike what the conservative media paint it these days, trying to equate choice and murder in the eyes of the publicAnd no one is ashamed of having sex which would undoubtedly lead to the dreaded slut shaming because sex is viewed as part of a normal life, like I firmly believe it should be Just be careful that s my only advice Of what Pregnancy Grandma And venereal disease Really Does it embarrass you to talk about it No, but It shouldn t. We as a society keep putting sex on an unnecessary pedestal We keep shaming girls for having sex We have political leaders who are outraged at having society cover the cost of birth control as to them it means condoning women having sex and God forbid enjoying it There are so many people warring against birth control and abortion because there should be consequences to daring to have sex And, of course, in literature aimed at young people sex is only permitted if it s true love, nothing less.Well, guess what I happen to believe that sex needs to be two things 1 consensual, and 2 enjoyable for everyone involved As long as these criteria are fulfilled, I don t have a problem with it, and I hope society would eventually come to peace with not only it but the ability and the right of people involved to make informed and responsible choices about it And that someday the materials that are deemed unacceptable to young people would be the one with graphic violence and not the ones with peaceful sex And that teenage experimenting, if done responsibly, is okay because why wouldn t it be That s not a bad word hate and war are bad words but fuck isn t. And that it s perfectly okay to not find your soulmate and the perfect one in the Twilight like fashion, and it s nothing to frown upon And it s okay to have sex when you are in love, and it s okay to not have that love last forever. And therefore I gladly give this Judy Blume book 4 stars and I will make sure my future hypothetical daughter reads it at some point, close to adolescence, because I hope she absorbs the healthy attitudes towards life, and that includes realistic teenage relationships I wanted to tell him that I will never be sorry for loving him That in a way I still do that maybe I always will I ll never regret one single thing we did together because what we had was very special Maybe if we were ten years older it would have worked out differently Maybe I think it s just that I m not ready for forever.

  2. Aleeeeeza Aleeeeeza says:

    Edit on 12 11 2011 To anyone who s got a problem with this review 1 Yes, I know that this book was a big deal when it was released That doesn t mean that when I read it in this day and age that I m going to judge it by it s historical significance I definitely appreciate it but it doesn t change the fact that I read it when I did and didn t like it and I don t want to have to constantly justify myself for that Let s ignore the fact that that s precisely what I m doing with this edit Right Edit on 12 11 2011 To anyone who s got a problem with this review 1 Yes, I know that this book was a big deal when it was released That doesn t mean that when I read it in this day and age that I m going to judge it by it s historical significance I definitely appreciate it but it doesn t change the fact that I read it when I did and didn t like it and I don t want to have to constantly justify myself for that Let s ignore the fact that that s precisely what I m doing with this edit Right 2 I know that this book s supposed to be an accurate portrayal of love at the age of seventeen and for that I should cut it some slack, but I just recently turned eighteen and I ve got a good idea of what most teenagers think love to be, and what I think it s supposed to be, and with all that in mind I can t, for the life of me, abide the portrayal of love in this book I did not enjoy reading it at all and it annoyed the bajeezus out of me, and nothing will change that.3 Guys might go around naming their underparts but I m always going to think that s disgusting.4 I HATE ELLIPSES AND ANY BOOK THAT HAS FIFTEEN ELLIPSES PER PAGE WILL AUTOMATICALLY CARVE IT S PLACE IN MY HATED THIS BOOK LIST takes deep breath Okay, yeah, that s it.Okay, yeah, so maybe I should explain the 1 star if you ve been following my reviews, you ll know that I rarely give books a 1 star rating I m not that hard to please as a reader, and I hate giving one of Judy Blume s books 1 star I used to love her MG books as kid, from what I can recall anyway But the thing is, I don t think there was a SINGLE redeeming factor in this book for me Let me list a brief list of the reasons 1 THE WRITINGGG It was so bland and unimaginative, and it was really hard to picture the scenes sometimes And the dialogue could be VERY corny at times But maybe what bothered me most was the CONSTANT use of ellipses I mean, you know ellipses have this really annoying effect they make the reader keep taking pauses and in this book there was one in practically EVERY FRIGGIN SENTENCE OMG Argggggg.2 The characters I didn t give a shizz about a single one of them, NOT ONE Kath was boooooooring and Michael was the horniest male love interest of all time I mean, yeah, teens are all lusty and hormonal and blah blah blah Hi 17 year old speaking here , but this man takes it to a whole new level Which brings me to 3 I wasn t particularly impressed with love s portrayal in this book I mean, to me, there was zilch chemistry between the characters and even so, it felt to me like Kath wasinto screwing Michael because he wanted it so bad rather than her own desire to do it The sex in this book is also REALLY explicit I m no prude, but come on, all that describing takes away all the romance in the scene Oh and, Michael calls his you know what RALPH Dude Seriously I get why this book is important for the time it was written in that didn t stop me from blitzing through it to finally get over with it Thankfully, it s super short and I won it in a contest, so I m not that miffed I m not saying no one should read this book cause it s aaaaawfulll a lot of people seem to really like it but it just wasn t for me

  3. Aj the Ravenous Reader Aj the Ravenous Reader says:

    To my dear friend, Christine s credit, she didn t recommend this personally I just shamelessly meddled with her shelves and found this novel You may as well proceed with her wonderful one line review if you want to avoid the rant y one coming your way But before the rant, let me just greet my sweet friend, A HAPPY BIRTHDAY.I hope you re having the best time and even though I didn t like this novel, again, it s the thought that I read a book for you that counts, right Lol Some books we lov To my dear friend, Christine s credit, she didn t recommend this personally I just shamelessly meddled with her shelves and found this novel You may as well proceed with her wonderful one line review if you want to avoid the rant y one coming your way But before the rant, let me just greet my sweet friend, A HAPPY BIRTHDAY.I hope you re having the best time and even though I didn t like this novel, again, it s the thought that I read a book for you that counts, right Lol Some books we love, some we just don t It s a sad fact of life but still, cheers, Christine Now onto the review Allow me to spare you the suspense The story goes basically this way Adults go saying to the teenage character Here are some birth control tips Now go pop the cherry, roll in the hay, have a go at it You may get stoned a little too as long as there s adult supervision and remember, be responsible for your own actions possibly ending the statement with a wink, a smile and two thumbs up My pitiful eyes, they suffered from the innumerable number of times getting laid was mentioned in the entire story Now you may say, Pft It s Aj She s just too uptight and stuffy Though you may be a teeny, tiny bit right to say that and I m totally rolling my eyes at ya , it s not just the plot and the content of the story It s everything else The writing style is kind of dull and in my opinion, too lazy I wasn t a fan of the plain dialogue style or the diary of a 10 year old entry like narrations See below example My parents sleep early, usually at 10 00 to 11 00 pm My father works out at a gym four times a week and plays tennis every morning from 7 30 8 30 am It s not like I m a better writer but hey, I m not an author And the characters, oh don t even get me started with the characters I couldn t even mildly put it and say I couldn t relate with them Because in my strong personal opinion, they re just plain flat, unfeeling paper characters and I m so sorry that I couldn t even euphemize my descriptions to avoid cruelty but you must know, reviews like this one is really hard for me too and as much as I wanted to give this two stars, I just can t because two stars means it s okay but this is definitely not okay especially that awful Michael guy naming his thingy, Ralph And I liked Wreck it Ralph a lot Way to ruin his image for me Ugh Turns out this is a classic YA novel Beats me I should be able to appreciate and enjoy a book regardless of the time it s written That s what a good book s supposed to be at least for me

  4. karen karen says:

    This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers To view it, click here they have sex it does not last forever at the end, she is a bitch.come to my blog they have sex it does not last forever at the end, she is a bitch.come to my blog

  5. Alex Alex says:

    The thing about Forever is that I didn t read it Boys didn t read any of this, and do you know what happened next What happened is we were terrible at sex. My sex ed was, I would trace ladies from comic books and then I would draw nipples and bushes on them I sold them to my classmates Here s the exact picture I used to trace Somebody drew this, like Here s this bad guy s costume, and everyone else in a whole ass company was like yep, looks legit, ship it to ten year olds No, I m so sorry The thing about Forever is that I didn t read it Boys didn t read any of this, and do you know what happened next What happened is we were terrible at sex. My sex ed was, I would trace ladies from comic books and then I would draw nipples and bushes on them I sold them to my classmates Here s the exact picture I used to trace Somebody drew this, like Here s this bad guy s costume, and everyone else in a whole ass company was like yep, looks legit, ship it to ten year olds No, I m so sorry, I don t have any of my tracings to scan here.Judy Blume is the Prometheus of puberty She s all, These poor mortals must have fire, though it cost me everything except instead of fire it s handjobs and instead of an eagle ripping her guts out it s some PTA asshole trying to kick her out of the library every day for the rest of her life Did you know that s still happening She s one of the most challenged authors of the 21st century These mothers and their undying need to think their daughters aren t fucking as much as they did they re all fuckingAnd so here we are, we teenage boys alone under the covers with our comic books, you teenage girls alone with Judy Blume, who s saying things like Some of your boyfriends are gay Can you believe she was talking about that in 1975 My wife s first, like, five boyfriends were gay I had a theory that gay boyfriends are a win for everyone you provide cover, they provide a nice guy who doesn t push you sexually My wife was like fuck your theory, I was horny.Not all the boyfriends are gay and Katherine is going to have sex in this book She s going to fuck Michael and his penis, Ralph, and they re all going to be very serious. But will it be.Forever My wife s sixth boyfriend was me, so who knows Percentage of women who Made a playlist for their first times 9% and this is the most adorable thing I ve ever heard, I hope it was all just Closer by NIN Remember the exact date 50% Wish they d waited longer 22% Used a condom 76% Said it hurt 51% Were in love with their partner 49% Were not really in love with their partner but insisted that they were to a stranger giving a survey 47%SourceAmanda Palmer has this song called Judy Blume that s so good, holy shit thank you forever, El and Alicia, for cluing me in to this Palmer goes, You told me things that nobody around me would tellThat was the summer that everyone touched me at onceOne day they ignored me, the next, they were all down my pantsBut you were in bed with me, safe, before anyone elseYou opened beside me and held me when I needed helpYou and me lying together at night, my heroYou ve been inside me forever, Judy BlumePalmer s my age now and she s still having this private conversation with Judy Blume, the Prometheus of puberty, and what a gift that is What an extraordinarily important thing Blume s done I personally am not still in conversation with the White Queen up there That wasn t a lifelong relationship I m still just muddling around alone here, knocking into things.Percentage of dudes who Name their dicks 73% Made an absolute bollocks of their first time either by cumming before they even get near their partner that happens in this book or by not getting it up also happens or by not using protection and knocking her up and now she has to give the kid up for adoption also happens, but not before some fat shaming that I could have done without 1%, it was just me, all the other guys were awesome at sex right out the gate It was all the comic book lady tracing that ruined me If only I d been doing normal, healthy teenager stuff, likenaming my penis Do dudes actually do that Now I ve finally read this book, but I feel like it s too late for names Did your first boyfriend name his dick Michael names his Ralph That s not even a good name for a person What the fuck, Michael

  6. JJ JJ says:

    I read this book because I m attempting to read or reread some classic YA books Now, I m a so so fan of Judy Blume, I know she has a lot of die hards out there I recently read Everything I Need to Know About Being a Girl I learned from Judy Blume but I guess I wasof a Beverly Cleary kid.This book is about first loves and first sexual experiences The story itself was good, but I think Judy Blume left out a lot of details The boyfriend, Michael, is basically a horn dog who would do any I read this book because I m attempting to read or reread some classic YA books Now, I m a so so fan of Judy Blume, I know she has a lot of die hards out there I recently read Everything I Need to Know About Being a Girl I learned from Judy Blume but I guess I wasof a Beverly Cleary kid.This book is about first loves and first sexual experiences The story itself was good, but I think Judy Blume left out a lot of details The boyfriend, Michael, is basically a horn dog who would do anything to try and talk Kath into putting out Kath is a girl who seems to devote her life to her boyfriend and put him above everything else Both qualities I really don t like in real people, let alone fictional characters All in all, I just think the story seemed rushed There needed to be longer scenes anddetails Take for instance Sybil, the fat friend who got pregnant Now, that s an interesting story in itself, and could have been a longer subplot But I think poor Sybil only got mentioned in a few paragraphs.The lesson for any young girl here If you date a guy who calls his manhood Ralph, run in the opposite direction shudders

  7. Katrina Passick Lumsden Katrina Passick Lumsden says:

    What do you do when the love of your life.isn t Forever answers that question with a simple and unflinching response you move on Kath and Michael meet at a party and quickly fall into a very physical romance After roughly a few months, Kath finally gets up the courage to have sex with Michael, believing she is in love and that she and Michael will last forever Michael too feels he and Kath are meant to be, so they flounder along in their romance, discovering each others bodies and hol What do you do when the love of your life.isn t Forever answers that question with a simple and unflinching response you move on Kath and Michael meet at a party and quickly fall into a very physical romance After roughly a few months, Kath finally gets up the courage to have sex with Michael, believing she is in love and that she and Michael will last forever Michael too feels he and Kath are meant to be, so they flounder along in their romance, discovering each others bodies and holding onto their assertions that they will prove everyone wrong and stand the test of time I ve seen a lot of reviewers complain about many things in this book, with most of those complaints revolving around the behavior of Kath and Michael I m going to address the ones I find most amusing, in no particular order 1 They talk about how in love they are, but they don t even know each other very well Is this not how the majority of teens think and behave How many times have you heard a teenage girl utter words of total devotion regarding a boy she s never even spoken to A teenager is essentially a child trapped in an almost adult body Their brains haven t caught up with their bodies, and their bodies are essentially out of control The fact that these two haven t known each other very long and barely know each other at all even though they think they do was purposeful Blume was trying to get across the very simple fact that young love isn t often very deep In fact, I find it rather silly when I read about a girl who is 16 or 17 and in the midst of some great love affair for the ages It s silly 2 Michael is such a horndog and pressures Kath into having sex And I really don t understand this complaint about the book since Michael is a 17 year old boy It s called reality, ladies Grown men are horndogs 17 year old boys, however, arelike hornmonsters Seriously, fill a bag up with nothing but hormones, give it teeth, douse it in gasoline and set it on fire That is a teenage boy As far as him pressuring Kath into having sex, that is also fairly realistic If I started making out with a guy, let him up my shirt and down my pants, even going so far as to play with Ralph we ll get to that in a moment , then pulled away not for the first time to utter again how I wasn t ready.I would not only expect some whining, I d expect a guy to be a little angry I m not saying this is acceptable behavior, and if you asked most guys they d tell you that they rethan willing to wait as long as they have to This does not, however, mean they won t whine when they get so close only to be rebuffed By the time they ve gotten down a girl s pants, they re so revved up that they can only see one thing Imagine you re in the desert and you re parched, thisclose to dying of thirst You see an oasis ahead of you Your prayers have been answered You run, stumble, crawl to that cold, life giving fluid as quickly as you can only for someone to yank it away and say, Nope, sorry, not ready yet For guys, this is pretty close to the equivalent Especially teen guys I m not trying to unfairly pigeonhole anyone here, and I know there sto teen guys than just sex I m merely saying it s usually a very large part of their everyday thoughts Michael didn t force Kath to have sex with him, she did relent , but she had wanted to relent since the beginning When they finally had sex, it was merely because Kath didn t chicken out again.3 Kath made her whole life about Michael It was stupid Yes, it was stupid And again, it was purposeful I made my entire life about a boy when I was a teenager I m willing to bet you did, as well If you didn t, you re the exception, not the norm For girls in particular, sex often fosters a fake sentiment, attaching us to our first like he s some sort of Greek god on whom our very existence depends I actually witnessed this in Kath She was enad with Michael before they had sex, but afterwards she was almost psychotically obsessed with him.4 Kath said she loved Michael, but after a few weeks away from him, she just willingly gave him up Again, you re missing a very important point The point That, at 17, you may not be ready for forever That what a teenage girl might think is an everlasting love might look different once a few other factors come into play In the beginning, Kath and Michael were insulated from the outside world They hadn t had to go out into it yet When Kath did, she met someone else and realized that Michael wasn t the only person in the world she could have a relationship with Once that sunk in, she started to wonder if she really did love him at all Then she started to think that maybe, just maybe, it was OK to have someone for a little while, then move on with your life This is a lesson most teenagers do eventually learn It s not easy, but it s often necessary 5 Michael named his penis Ralph That is so disgusting Double standard much I ve seen women give their breasts and or vaginas names and that s perfectly OK, but a guy giving his penis a name is somehow disgusting OK, so let s say you think girls who name their body parts are disgusting, as well To you I say lighten up Life is too short to find fault with something so completely innocuous So he named his penis, what guy hasn t, at least jokingly, called his penis by a name Sometimes a girlfriend names it Gasp Seriously, people, if this is one of the reasons you dislike this book, I will gladly hand you two quarters one so you can go buy yourself a clue and the other so you can hire someone to pull that rod out of your ass Phallus naming is not new, it s not rare, and it can oftentimes be hilarious But the thing I really don t understand is how this part of the book has come to be used as proof of how bad the book is It s realistic I guess if you re not a huge fan of reality, however, it could be a bit problematic Just try and forgive Ms Blume s audacity.6 The sex scenes were too descriptive, I don t want my daughters reading this trash This is a pretty common sentiment, unfortunately I say it s unfortunate because I believe young girls should be as informed as possible regarding sex long before they begin to seriously consider participating in it This book is not pornographic, it s descriptive It doesn t glorify the act of sex, it presents it in a rather realistic light Almost painfully realistic at times Kath expresses disappointment about her first time She had been expecting it to be perfect No one s first time is ever perfect Anyone who tells you their first time was perfect is probably lying to you It s awkward, embarrassing, and uncomfortable Further, women who refer to sex scenes as trash or any other common noun expressing distaste are usually uncomfortable with the topic in general, not just as it relates to teenagers As a society, we ve spent far too many years ashamed of our bodies and terrified of sex There is absolutely nothing wrong with the act itself, it s merely been demonized and perverted beyond the point of recognition by insecure people So if you don t want your children reading something like this, that s fine Just remember how ashamed you felt the first time you ever touched a penis or yourself and ask yourself if those feelings of shame were at all right or justified Why should anyone feel ashamed of sex Only human beings could take something as wonderful and necessary as sexual intercourse and turn it into something shameful and filthy This is not a fantasy There aren t any sparkly metrosexual vampires guarding the heroine s virtue while simultaneously watching her sleep This is a book about two 17 year olds who meet, like each other, hook up, fall prey to their misguided, immature conceptions of what love is, then have to deal with what their relationship is once faced with reality It s shallow, yes, because teens are usually pretty shallow It s sexual, again, because teens are pretty sexual It s also over rather quicklylike the majority of teenage relationships

  8. Julie Julie says:

    Wow, this retro re read project I ve taken on with my sister in snark, Vanessa, has become borderline INSUFFERABLE.We had so much enthusiasm, Vanessa and I, as we compiled an informal list of our most decadent, dirty reads, the ones we hid back in the day from the probing eyes of teachers and had covers that were worn from so many adolescent girls hands.Once, our inexperienced selves considered these books titilating as experienced adults I havelikely considered how did this nonse Wow, this retro re read project I ve taken on with my sister in snark, Vanessa, has become borderline INSUFFERABLE.We had so much enthusiasm, Vanessa and I, as we compiled an informal list of our most decadent, dirty reads, the ones we hid back in the day from the probing eyes of teachers and had covers that were worn from so many adolescent girls hands.Once, our inexperienced selves considered these books titilating as experienced adults I havelikely considered how did this nonsense ever get published Our last two, Flowers in the Attic and Fear of Flying were so over the top awful, you could only assume that a publishing house was pushing the envelope, hoping the sex would sell it did, in both cases , but this one, Forever, provokes the most head scratching confusion of the bunch I know, from much personal experience, that Judy Blume knows how to write, knows how to develop characters, and knows how to write dialogue.So what happened here Yes, there are sex scenes and sexual information in this story that appeared in the dark ages of 1975 that caused many a teen girl to reach out her hand in quiet desperation, and there s a bit of an education to be gained here for the average adolescent.But, good God, this was boring Bor ing And, the book s not only boring it contained zero character development, zero plot points of interest and dialogue that sounded like it was being read by the characters from a teleprompter.This entire book reads like a pamphlet from Parent Parenthood rather than a story Three stars for teaching young women about the importance of birth control

  9. Whitney Atkinson Whitney Atkinson says:

    2.5 starsThis book is to the girls of the 70s what American Girl s The Keeping and Caring of You is to girls from the 90s It s a very short, dry story of these two teens exploring sex, and it readslike a zeitgeist piece than an evergreen how to guide I was mainly interested in how teenagers talked to their partners and the social environment of sex around that time, and evaluating how different the world is today compared to this book was interesting I don t regret reading this book, 2.5 starsThis book is to the girls of the 70s what American Girl s The Keeping and Caring of You is to girls from the 90s It s a very short, dry story of these two teens exploring sex, and it readslike a zeitgeist piece than an evergreen how to guide I was mainly interested in how teenagers talked to their partners and the social environment of sex around that time, and evaluating how different the world is today compared to this book was interesting I don t regret reading this book, but I wouldn t necessarily recommend it because although it was a fascinating look back on teens a few decades ago, it was also full of stereotypes and distasteful dialogue and fatphobia and the male love interest pressuring the main character to doAND THE ELLIPSES WHYDID EVERY OTHER SENTENCEHAVE ELLIPSESINCLUDING THE TITLE

  10. Sheri Sheri says:

    Judy Blume has always excelled at writing about issues that are relevant to teens Her plainspoken characters dealing with everyday contemporary topics offer relatable reads that get right to the heart of the matter Here she takes the reader into that first real relationship, that first love, and that first sexual experience.While some say there is no plot or character development in this novel, I find that to be Blume s point she perfectly illustrates the shallowness of most teen relationship Judy Blume has always excelled at writing about issues that are relevant to teens Her plainspoken characters dealing with everyday contemporary topics offer relatable reads that get right to the heart of the matter Here she takes the reader into that first real relationship, that first love, and that first sexual experience.While some say there is no plot or character development in this novel, I find that to be Blume s point she perfectly illustrates the shallowness of most teen relationships There is no story to follow because there is no substance in the relationship Although the carefree lovers would disagree, there isn t depth or breadth to the relationship you can t get to know a person when you only explore your mutual physical interest in each other Michael and Katherine epitomize teenage lust in all senses physical, psychological, and emotional I enjoyed re reading this classic from my teen years I suspect I am rating this higher than my younger self might have because I can see and appreciate the lessons Blume is trying to impart I do remember enjoying it as a teen, although most likely forimmature reasons Does it stand the test of time Would today s teens find relevance in the story Yes, I think so There are a few dated references, but I think teens especially females would enjoy reading this tale of first love Hopefully they re savvy enough to pick up Blume s inferred lessons

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